Get comfortable being wrong

ComfortZone

Human nature is to be right all the time. Nobody likes to be wrong even in petty/useless arguments. This particular thought process is one of the primary reasons for many opting for methods that shows high winning percentage with abysmal Risk:Reward ratio. Many of the world’s renowned traders are trend followers and trend following usually delivers something that human brain is not used to – More losers than winners with superior Risk:Reward ratio.

Introduction

In trend following type of trading, the usual combination is low winning percentage with high Risk:Reward. This requires a trader to get comfortable with the fact that we will most likely be wrong more often than we are right.

That concept is tough for a lot of traders,as many of us believe that to be profitable we need to be right more than we are wrong. but nothing could be further from the truth. Yes, for scalping that is partially true, but for swing trading, with the proper risk to reward ratio, we can be profitable even if we are wrong more than we are right.

We just need to have the patience to wait for a trade to come, and also patience to wait for a trade to work.

Here is a blogpost on patience

Deliberate practice and patience

Trend following and surfing

Unlike surfing, we don’t get the luxury of knowing which direction the WAVE we are on is headed, but trust me, it is going somewhere and is not going to sit around in any one place for very long. This is the one and only guarantee in stock markets 😀

We may spend days watching for a sequence of events, enter a trade and get stopped out in minutes. But if we are a trend follower, we have to just get back up and start watching again. That is tough to swallow for traders who enjoy the adrenaline of a fast-paced trading environment

Trading and action

If a trader cannot wait and always in need of action, trend following will never work for him. For that matter, any kind of trading would be difficult.

Many traders love the frequent adrenaline rushes that come with trading. And, the more frequently they trade, the more they feel that they are hitting the fast forward button on their way to riches.

By the way, most successful traders and investors are systematic. Systematic sounds technical or quantitative but that’s far from the truth. All it means is that there is a process to guide proper decision making. When A happens they do Y, when B happens they do Z. Warren Buffett and Benjamin Graham has a very systematic process in searching for their stocks. Ray Dalio from Bridgewaters Associates has a very systematic fundamental approach to capital markets.

Trading and drudgery

Many a times, people ask this question to me. It always pops up in different ways –

Should i pursue the dream of becoming a successful/consistently profitable trader in spite of all these drudgery?

I remember a movie honcho once said that when people asked him if they should continue to pursue their dreams of movie stardom, he would always tell them ‘NO’. His reasoning was simple – no one destined for success would be dissuaded by him anyway, nor for that matter would they even have asked the question in the first place.

It’s that solitary “march to your own drummer” mentality that mark those ordained for success 🙂

Trading and negativity

So, to be effective in trading (and anything in life), kindly distance yourself from negative energy – no matter where it comes from. Let negative thoughts roll over like water. Negative thoughts, emotions, energy is destructive multiplier. It kills creative uni-directional thinking. Detach yourself from things, other people and immerse yourself in the price. Lose sense of time and space.

Think of an activity that you enjoy, we lose sense of time and space when we get involved right? So, let me ask this question then –

Why does trading have to be stressful, painful, edgy all the time?

Get comfortable being wrong and detach from negativity

Happy trading all !!

Your trading is exciting or boring?

Trading is boring

Introduction

Many folks find trading the markets pretty exciting. Why not? Seeing the tickers move wild can give great excitement to anyone and the prospect (not actually making money..just the prospect) of making money can give the best adrenaline rush . A fun-filled activity right? As a matter of fact, they become really sad when the markets are closed as there is no fun in mundane daily activities.

And there are certain set of people who find trading the markets as downright boring. Surprisingly, majority of the consistently profitable traders find this endeavor a really boring one. For them, it is a matter of doing the same thing over and over as long as it keeps on working. Without deviating and without looking for something new. Without getting antsy about “missing out” some great opportunity somewhere else.

Hard work and belief in the process

Let me get this straight – Trading is hard work at the start, but it should be effortless during the trading process. Good or professional traders know this really well. In fact, trading should be boring to some degree when we have our system and methodology down. The reason for this is we know when to pull the trigger and when not to. If market gaps against our position, we know what to do. We know how to react when the time is right. However, it requires hard work to get to this level of professionalism.

Two sides of the same coin

Trading the markets in itself is contrasting in nature. We must be confident, but ego-less. We must be mechanical but analytical, focused but relaxed, and disciplined but willing to learn. Our decisions may appear to be binary, buy or sell but they are markedly more complex.

Acquiring the knowledge of trading mechanics, maneuvers, ideas/strategies, and risk/money management is a relatively easy and determinate process. But, developing the mental skills of focus, discipline, objectivity, and self confidence are much more challenging.

In fact, it’s the one area of trading performance that gives the pleasure of incessant learning experience for the practitioner (trader) , and for some a continuous scuffle (and might feel like never-ending ordeal)

Trading and lack of knowledge

The problems and challenges we face in trading are not due to a lack of knowledge/information, but are due to a lack of patience and self-confidence. Once again, ‘it is never a lack of knowledge’. The sooner we understand it, the faster we can pave the path to recovery.

Enhancement begins with changes in how we choose to think, act and be. Positive changes that will only be realized when we make a decision – a choice to learn to let go off the selfish/self-defeating side of our emotions which blocks our minds and garbles our decisions.

Trading and self-introspection

I will be the first to admit that the journey onto becoming a successful trader is mired with twists and bumps all along, filled with great triumph, and frustrating distress, but everyone has the talent to succeed and the power to create value in their lives.

Now some serious questions to ponder upon —

1. Are you patient enough to wait for the planned trade set up?
2. Are you ready to wait until a valid buy / sell signal is triggered (not jumping the gun)?
3. Can you place and execute the required orders, before the prices move away from the price of entry?
4. Can you focus on your trade without any sort of disturbances, until the trade is completed.
5. Can you patiently follow your exit plan (even if the market moves up and down in-between)?

When we try to introspect by answering these questions, we readily identify that it is not our ‘lack of knowledge’ that is enabling us to lose money in trading but it is the lack of patience(in order to seek excitement).

So, let us focus on acquiring the non-glamorous skills and trading will become more boring than we would have ever imagined !!